I'm totally okay with the baby part. Soon-ish, even, assuming the right partner to do that with comes along. Therin lies the rub; I'm so okay with it that I want it, and Mom insists on pressuring me about actually doing it.

I was amused though, a while back, when it had come up yet again and she said something about "an order of preference when doing things." As if I should skip the marriage part and go on to the baby part.

The thing is, while I'd like to find a male partner because I like that kind of energy for day to day stuff, space sharing, etc. I don't like assuming that that's the way it will be...and she makes it out that way.