I don't want to end up feeling resentful because I'm overwhelmed. And right now, the pile of stuff to do makes me grouchy and stressed, largely because I don't know how or what to do next, and I'm too far away to do things effectively without help. It's a control thing, at least in part.

Sometime this summer, after I've gotten things under control, I will have a wedding free weekend. First though, the planning!

(I do have a question about your dress sometime, when you're in the mood...)