I would absolutely be ok with it. I would be giving you milk because I had extra, or the ability to produce extra, you know?

It would become ok with me as soon as the baby was born.

I would be giving you milk because I wanted your daughter to have the best possible food. Of course I'd also want her to have the best possible mom. And if having the best possible mom means letting mom get away from living by the pump or clock? I'd support it.

I'd be surprised if a donor mom would be anything but supportive of you taking care of yourself and your baby.