When addressing an envelope to a same sex couple, you put the name of the cuter one first. If you don't know or they're equally cute, alphabetical order works fine.
As for how to put your name on the invitations, I think I see it as being less about telling people who you're dating than about telling people who's hosting the event. If aquariumgirl is hosting the party with you, I'd say put her name on all the invites. That you're hosting a party together isn't necessarily a statement about your personal life. If this is really your party, I would just use your name and ask her to send a note to her friends encouraging them to attend.
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Date: 2003-04-01 04:31 am (UTC)As for how to put your name on the invitations, I think I see it as being less about telling people who you're dating than about telling people who's hosting the event. If