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Well, I suppose it was inevitable...and I was resigned to it happening someday.

And I will absolutely not deny the fact that the Red Sox have fielded some incredible baseball teams. They're not a bad team, they're just evil. It's simple.

Perhaps this event was apocalyptic enough that John Kerry will win this election.

I did get the health insurance thing straightened out. $84 for over $500 worth of medication. I am grateful I have health insurance.

aquariumgirl and I went to dinner tonight. She gave me back my keys-she's had my house and car key since I moved into this place. This was very sad, and I admit, I cried about it for a bit before I drove home.

Things are progressing here. And the unsettledness will be over soon.

LGBT and Kink Friendly Medical Care Referrals

Useful to US-based friends, but I've had reason to give this link out a number of times recently, so I thought I'd post it....

Gay and Lesbian Medical Association Referral Service

(It's a free, web based referral service, which provides information for those looking for LGBT aware health care providers, you can restrict your search to kink aware providers and/or TS/TG aware providers as well.)

A question for those of you with pets

I got an e-mail from zedrikcayne which said something about "our cats."

Fair enough...I should be pleased that he's taking to them so kindly, and thinking of them as a shared thing, right? In reality, I haven't yet given up the idea of Beta and Oblivion as "mine" and let them become "ours" (or for that matter "yours" as I suspect Oblivion will be when she throws up in her dish for the billionth time in a week.)

So, I'm wondering, those of you who had pets first and then a relationship where you moved in with someone else-are previously owned pets "yours/mine" or are they "ours"? How do you feel about it, and how did you get over the possessiveness, if there was any?

(In truth, I am glad that he likes them and they mostly like him...I'm sure over time, Beta will warm up to him even more-Beta just needs some time to get used to him. It's not like aquariumgirl who is pretty much his second mom, and has been around him since he was a kitten...she helped me pick him, or him pick me, and drove us home together, and has been here almost every week and has come to visit the kitties when I've been out of town and so on.)

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Wow can I tell when the serevent wears off. As much as I resent having to take it, I can tell the difference, and I can't believe I was willing to go without for so long. It's nice to not feel like I'm breathing through a straw. Course it does make me a bit jittery for the first couple of days, but that wears off quickly. I wonder how much better I'll feel when I start back on the other two meds tonight.

Packing is progressing reasonably. It's niggly bits left in everywhere but the kitchen and bathroom. Those are tomorrow's projects, along with an oil change for the car and remembering to mail out the COBRA check. (Wish I could pay that bill online. I do so much better with online bill paying.) Going to try and make sure to get the oil change done early enough and get a really good parking spot...then, we'll try and make sure we keep it with Cayne's car when we go to pick up the truck.

Back to packing.