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Ins and Outs
Nov. 12th, 2002 11:41 pmThere's something to be said for having been outed at work. I didn't have to go through the "Yes I'm bisexual" etc. conversation today when talking to the new guy.
But we're having the boundary thing again. This seems to be a recurring theme in my life, often involving gay men.
So, the new guy found out that I was into leather/bdsm stuff. It's not something I go out of my way to hide, but it's also not something super-public at work. So the boundary thing...I don't need to know that you were looking for a "well hung bottom boy who likes to play hard."
*sigh*
It's bound to happen. I'll let it go, but if it goes overboard I'll cross that bridge when it does.
Someone got outed to me at work too. I had no idea about this person and other people said something about him being gay. While I don't care about his orientation, I do care that he was outed. It's not right for that to be disclosed, accidentally or on purpose to me.
But we're having the boundary thing again. This seems to be a recurring theme in my life, often involving gay men.
So, the new guy found out that I was into leather/bdsm stuff. It's not something I go out of my way to hide, but it's also not something super-public at work. So the boundary thing...I don't need to know that you were looking for a "well hung bottom boy who likes to play hard."
*sigh*
It's bound to happen. I'll let it go, but if it goes overboard I'll cross that bridge when it does.
Someone got outed to me at work too. I had no idea about this person and other people said something about him being gay. While I don't care about his orientation, I do care that he was outed. It's not right for that to be disclosed, accidentally or on purpose to me.
