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I had a massage the other day-was fantastic. It felt really good, and it was nice to be touched with no expectations, no pressure, no nothing. Not that my dear spouse is pushing for anything but there's this feeling like something else should eventually happen. I'm getting firmly reminded not to ignore sex or avoid it, because, "that's the first thing that dies in a relationship."

I do love that my spouse complements me, still. Yesterday he told me how good I looked in the shirt I was wearing. It's nice to still feel desired even though I usually feel exhausted and unfocused. Some days I'm surprised I can carry on an adult conversation.

I'm really lucky to have a spouse who is so willing to take the baby with him when he goes places, so that I get some time sans baby. I admit, I'm looking forward to the more regular schedule that happens for many babies at four to six months. It'll make it easier to get things done.

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Technology Catches Up

I bought a bunch of CDs for Naomi last weekend. Neither my car nor Cayne's car has a CD player though. I have both an IPod and a portable CD player that can plug into the speakers of the car though Here's the conversation we had tonight.

Me: "So what do you think the best way to get that music playing in the car for Naomi is?"
Him: "Put it on the IPod I guess, and make playlists for her."
Me: "Okay. I can do that."
Him:" Or you could make a mix tape for her."
Me: "Do we even have anything that will do that anymore?"
He thinks for a moment and says, "Yeah. My stereo in the blue room will do it."
Me: "Can we still buy tapes."
Him: "I think so."