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This thing with my Dad is exhausting and I'm not even there. I feel doubly helpless being far away, my mother and I are fighting because I have a zillion questions and no one has answers. That's not particularly helpful because it drains her even further of her ability to cope with my Dad (and spending 14 hours a day in a hotel room) and it doesn't get my questions answered either.

This whole thing just plain rots.