When I was in college, I somehow found out about bisexuality thanks to the internet (what would we do without the internet?). I just knew it fit. I've always been atttracted to men and women, but until I was in college I didn't even KNOW there was a label for it.
As far as Terry and the ex go, it all depends. If he went into the marriage with a lie, he's a jerk. If he worked it out later, I think it's different. You can't help who you are, but if you know who you are and still carry that lie that far, there's no excuse for that. Even if you can't say "hey i'm gay, we can't get married, WAVE OFF SOMEHOW.
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Date: 2005-11-10 02:42 am (UTC)As far as Terry and the ex go, it all depends. If he went into the marriage with a lie, he's a jerk. If he worked it out later, I think it's different. You can't help who you are, but if you know who you are and still carry that lie that far, there's no excuse for that. Even if you can't say "hey i'm gay, we can't get married, WAVE OFF SOMEHOW.