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[Poll #789963]
If you share the purchasing decisions with housemates or partners, how do you decide which way to go when you disagree on which value is more important?
If you're filling out this poll, please assume that it's purchases for personal or household use, not for business.
[Poll #789963]
If you share the purchasing decisions with housemates or partners, how do you decide which way to go when you disagree on which value is more important?
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Date: 2006-08-10 05:04 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2006-08-10 05:55 pm (UTC)For example, a few years ago we stopped shopping at WalMart. Mostly because of their anti-union stand, coupled with some friends who were employees who were screwed over by the corporate game. Switching our shopping over was an adjustment, probably a small price increase, but very fulfilling.
Our area is dominated by only two supermarket chains. Price Chopper happens to be locally owned. The family does lots of charitable outreach, particularly with local Jewish groups; we like this. So we do most of our grocery shopping there.
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Date: 2006-08-10 08:58 pm (UTC)Wal-Mart is one of the major grocery retailers around here, for example. I dislike them immensely, for a lot of reasons, one of which you mentioned above, but I also can cut my grocery bill by about a third for an average weekly grocery shop. And that 30% a week adds up. There's a recent push at WalMart throughout the company go go greener, which is interesting, too-but what do you do if you're both an environmentalist and a support of good labor practices and living wages?
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Date: 2006-08-10 05:57 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2006-08-10 06:10 pm (UTC)Until then, I need to make sure my bills get paid, and that means shopping at WalMart from time to time, much as I loathe the corporation. I go where my ride is willing to take me, and I can't afford to be very picky.
A corollary to this poll would be one about clothing purchases, i.e. do people pay attention to where their clothes come from. However, it would behoove the poll to include income brackets for answering the poll as well, because that would undoubtedly change the answers. I simply cannot afford a J. Crew wardrobe on my budget, and as much as I don't like to think about how old the little girl was who fashioned my t-shirt, I can't go to work in the same outfit every day either (no uniforms here).
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Date: 2006-08-10 06:18 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-10 06:21 pm (UTC)Appliances and Automobiles are such rare purchases, that it is hard to think about what I "usually" do.
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Date: 2006-08-10 09:02 pm (UTC)Our new place is not far from the Saturday farmer's market which is even more exciting for me.
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Date: 2006-08-10 07:47 pm (UTC)I do tend to show my values with my $$. For instance, when I am treated badly I tend to not give anymore money there if I can avoid it unless they make it up to me. I am a pretty tolerant person but Walmart has done enough that I choose not to shop there. Haven't in 8 years. The skating rink also will be missing my $$ since my last mistreatment there. Prior coaching difficulties have been a thing I didn't blame the rink for I blame the coach tho I would have liked to see her done away with. Now when management treated me badly and didn't return my call I got pissed and if that's what they think of the money I spend there then I can drive an extra 10 minutes elsewhere.
I bought my car from toyota because they offered a hybrid with high gas mileage. We got a prius. More of my Sienna was built in the USA than my Ford was. Appliances I tend to choose based on how energy efficient they are as well as my views of who makes them. I don't buy Appliances from Sears because I've had numerous bad experiences there.
I try to support small and local when I can. I use big when I have to either for price or convenience sake.
Chris is pretty tolerant about how I choose to spend the money as long as I am reasonable and don't blow the budget. He's truly a gem and we agree on a lot of things. Other stuff we discuss until we reach a compromise. I know he thinks my anti-Walmart stance is funny but he supports it.
Having access to money makes a difference I think to some degree. But I still buy clothes for Tatiana at consignment shops and sales. I try to reduce, reuse, recycle. We pass her hand me downs on to a couple of families that need them. We try not to be wasteful.
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Date: 2006-08-10 08:53 pm (UTC)I feel somewhat guilty for thinking that way, but I'm not a big shopper, so I doubt I have much impact anyway.
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Date: 2006-08-10 10:29 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-11 12:12 am (UTC)I often choose to shop at stores which I feel have values more in line with my own, and avoid shopping at stores whose values I know to be in conflict with mine. For example, I shop at Wal-Mart and Target only when there aren't any other reasonable options, whereas I make a special point of shopping at Costco. I don't think I'd be able to bring myself to buy my groceries at Wal-Mart routinely -- I'd be more likely to do without the more expensive items on my shopping list rather than shop there.
For large purchase items, quality and value are the most important issues to me. I pay no attention at all to whether Honda or Ford has better employment practices, political donations, etc. -- I buy a Honda because I believe it will last longer and need fewer repairs, thus making its higher initial purchase price worthwhile.
As for supporting local/small businesses -- I usually shop wherever I think I'm more likely to find what I'm looking for. Frankly, that's usually at the larger store.
So, I was only able to vote on the first question in the poll.
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Date: 2006-08-12 04:07 pm (UTC)