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[geminigirl]

Spitting, Swallowing, and Some Other Secrets-it's an article from the Columbia Spectator.



One choice quote...

"Just don't think you're not a slut because you only give guys head and don’t fuck them."

and this paragraph...

"Women are much more complicated than men. Oral sex for men—gay and straight—holds the same value. Oral sex for gay and straight women is entirely different. A friend of mine who’s been with several guys and girls confesses that you almost need a different language for discussing girl-on-girl action. It's as intimate and requires just as much foreplay and time as it does for a straight girl, but it isn't a stepping-stone. Straight girls are often uncomfortable with a guy going down on them; gay girls never have that concern. They understand each other, so they give each other better head. Gay guys, lesbians, and bisexuals have a serious advantage: they know what they like and can give the same to their lovers. They don't have any of the inhibitions straight girls have. They don't brag, as so many of my guy friends do, about their amazing oral sex skills; they know better than to be cocky. If I didn't think pussy was so gross, I might actually be jealous."

Comments

[also-huey.livejournal.com]

I don't think I'll ever understand why some people think pussy is gross. Here's something I (quite coincidentally) recently wrote for someone else:
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It's okay, women have needs too, I know. I've always been a big fan of the female orgasm. Initially I thought of it as just good PR, but I've since realized that it's much more than that.

Imagine I'm trying to describe oral sex to a Martian or a robot or something - someone with absolutely no frame of reference. It'd go something like this:

Okay, between a woman's legs, there's a thing that's kind of like a cross between an oyster and an orchid. Stick your tongue in there, and play with that for about an hour. While you're doing this, many different things might happen. She might scream your name, or she might scream somebody else's. She might not make any noises at all, beyond a few deep sighs. She might writhe around and buck her body like she's being stabbed with a hot poker or attacked by a swarm of hornets or something, or she might just lie there, or she might just lie there until one moment where she screams and crushes your ears with her thighs. It might drip a little, or it might spray whole mouthfuls of warm salt water at you. And, after you're done, she might attack you, she might say "That was wonderful. If I come back tomorrow, will you do that again?" or she might get in her car, drive home, and then proceed to tell all of her friends that you raped her. None of those things are particularly important, beyond the simple audible- and force-feedback during the actual act. Eating pussy isn't the means to an end, it's an end in itself. You've just given someone an orgasm, and everybody likes those, and you can take some vicarious pleasure in it, and also revel in the scent, and the taste, and the imagery, even if there's no 69ing and no sex afterwards. It's just fun, in a powerfully sexual way. I love it. If I didn't have a wife to support, I could move to Nevada and become a professional pussy-eater.
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I'd be a lot more bisexual, if it weren't for two things: an absolute dearth of men that I find attractive, and hoo-boy do I ever like me some cunt.

[beaq.livejournal.com]

That's where I come down on dick. Hoo boy!

Danger, Will Robinson! Danger!

[also-huey.livejournal.com]

The gingham dog and the calico cat,
Side by side on the table sat...

Re: Danger, Will Robinson! Danger!

[beaq.livejournal.com]

Kinky!

[fj.livejournal.com]

Terribly written. Goes nowhere eventhough it could have. Borderline sex-negative.

[papertigers.livejournal.com]

agreed. i got so annoyed/bored i gave up about 1/3 of the way through.

She's not as alone as she thinks she is.

[maxdwolf.livejournal.com]

I myself prefer giving to recieving and know of a couple women who feel the same.

[clockwatcher.livejournal.com]

stone. Straight girls are often uncomfortable with a guy going down on them; gay girls never have that concern.

So not true.