Duh.

[geminigirl]

Since when did sexually active mean "must involve a penis?"

I'm proud to say I've had lots of great sex that hasn't involved a penis at all.

(This post brought to you by my frustration at someone on one of the communities I read saying "unless you're totally sexually inactive, meaning nothing at all where a penis is involved")

(Mind you, I should know better than to expect people-especially young people, to think there's more to sex than sticking a penis into a vagina. And yes. There are exceptions. Some young people know there's more to sex than that. I just don't run into them very often.)

Comments

[tommx.livejournal.com]

what was the description of lesbian sex that one of the kids you teach came up with that had us both laughing our asses off?

[geminigirl]

Bumping Fuzzies.

"It's when two chicks have sex."

[entirelysonja.livejournal.com]

I still find that one entertaining...though I'm embarrassed to admit that I can't actually remember the technical term for that particular sex act off the top of my head. *blush*

[geminigirl]

Oral sex on a woman is cunnilingus...is that the one?

[lcohen]

it sounds like you're talking about frottage--is that what you meant?

[geminigirl]

"Body to Body Rubbing"

I once did an eroticizing safer sex workshop (A Rubberwear party) in college, with another peer educator who kept mispronouncing frottage as "fromage"-I can't tell you how much it made me laugh.

No. Sex and cheese probably isn't a good combination.

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

My favorite frottage post ever.

[entirelysonja.livejournal.com]

Yup, you got it! Thanks for reminding me! :-)

[lovingboth]

'Frottage' in general, and specifically for two women rubbing vulvas together, it's 'tribadism'.